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Dear Elcee, I obviously have a problem because I'm asking for advise. I have three friends who are my best friends. But the problem is that one of my friend is hanging out with another group of people, (no offence to the other group of friends, but they can be mean and the make fun of all the "dorks, geeks, emos, skaters, freaks," you knoe that kind of stuff)and now we haven't hung out this whole summer with her b/c she is always with the other group of her "friends". we don't know what to do though. we never talked about her behind her back about this and she thinks that we are mad at her! but we never talked about her of anything. She acts different around us and calls us names b/c she thinks we acts stupid (calls us weirdos, stupid, retarded, etc...) to make the group she hangs out with now laugh and when we try to hang out with her, we feel like we don't fit in and we are the outcasts.. do you have any advise on what i should do, say, anything? i rate 5's even if its good, bad, short, long, anykind of answer.
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It seems to me that she no longer wants to be friends with any of you. Everyone is different and they are entitled to be friends with anyone they like. Carry on being friendly with her and continue to not talk about her behind her back. I think it would be a good idea to just give her some space and maybe she will realise that she would be better of with you than with her other friends. Perhaps she has decided that she has other interests than you and wants to explore that side of herself. There is not a lot you can do about it but if you continue to be nice she may come back. Good luck.
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