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me and my boyfriend
ok i havent seen my boyfriend for a while but to night his best friend started making moves on me and told me not to tell anyone about what he is doing and i gess i shouldent call it sex because i didnt want it but we did it and i dont like him he does drugs and just got out of jail for rape but i feel sick my stumic hurts and i feel like im gonna throw up he did put a condom on. What should i do should i tell my boyfriend or what.
And when me and my boyfriend are near his friend i start to cry and i hold on to my boyfriend tight.
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if the pains persist, you should consult a gynecologist. it sounds to me like you're going through a lot of emotional pain because of what that guy did to you. if there's anyone you could talk to about it, like a best friend or maybe a counselor, you should just talk it out and maybe that will make you feel slightly better. if not, then write your feelings about it on a piece of paper or in your diary, that helps too. if you didn't give consent to having sex, then you should definitely tell someone because he raped you. if you did, then at least consider telling your boyfriend, depending on how you think he would take it and how it might affect your relationship.
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Did you consent to having sex? If you didn't then it will be classed as rape. Regardless of the fact that he used a condom, you are feeling abused right now. Would you be able to tell someone in authority? Are your parents approachable, if not a teacher or someone else in your family? It might also be a good idea to have yourself checked out at a clinic. He should not have had sex with you and you have the right to say no. What if he raped someone else?
As for your boyfriend, that is a call only you can make. You have to judge for yourself how well he would take the news. It is always a bad idea to keep secrets of this magnitude to yourself and if you don't want to tell your boyfriend will his so called 'best friend' tell him? You need to stay away from this boy because he is bad news and your boyfriend needs to know a reason why you dislike him so much. You need to be strong and face this crisis - the chances of you being pregnant are low but it is always a possibility. The condom is not 100% safe. I hope for your sake that you are not and I wish you all the best - it will be hard but you need to do something about it for your own peace of mind. Good luck.
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