|
ex bf HELPPP.
so i've been reading thru these questions and answring here and there, but then i finally realized that i need advice myself. ill rate you pretty high if you even read this twisted story...
me and my ex boyfriend had been going out for almost 3 months when he suddenly broke things off with me. pWe were good friends before we actually were going out...] When we were going out we were compeely comfortable with eachother, and when we first started going out there was no "comfort stage" as some people call it where we were awkward like new lovers. We live thru the woods from eachother so it was the perfect set up, whenever we needed eachother we could just meet halfway and we'd be together [weboth hate the phone].
however, the friday before he broke up with me, he told me hed call me[this was in school] and wed hang out with "the crew" [all of our mutal friends] he never called me that whole weekend and monday morning he broke up with me in a completely awkward and un like him self way. He hooked up with a friend of mine, and now he goes out with another friend of mine.
Heres the problem...i feel like i am over him, but i still find myself thinkin about him quite often. It doesnt help that i'm still sort of friends with our "mutal friends" who have drifted ever since we broke up, but my friend goesout with him!. i'm okay with that, or at least i think i am, but every once and a while ill have some outrageous dream that we get back together in the end and nothing changed, he loved me all along and the whole break up was stupid.
somebody please help i dont know what to do about my mixed feelings...as much as i want him back, i honestly dont want the dirtbag. i've had a hook up since them...with antoher dirtbag who is also my friend...it didnt mean much, i was smashed...and now i might have feelings for that guys older brother...but i still dont kno what to do about my ex....
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
your ex sounds like a jerk. i dont think i would go out with him again. Maybe your thinking about him alot cause your good friends. thats what it sounds like at least. i hope that you dont get to confussed. sorry this is pretty lame advice im in a hurry. but i would say your thinking about him cause of your friendship. i hope i helped =]
♥
]
This guy sounds like a total jerk off. I know exactly what your going through. My ex is going out with my best friend right now. It sucks but I got over him. I don't even talk to him anymore. That's how I got over him. Seriously though, what kind of guy would go out with one of your friends? I think that's pretty low. A guy that would do that sort of thing. That's why I don't even talk to my ex anymore. This guy sounds like a total ass. I know that you think that it's the end of the world, but there's plenty more guys out there. And ones that will treat you right. I would still hold off dating untill I was totally over him though. It would just seem like a rebound then.
]
oh darlingg. i know exactly how you feel. i'm preeetty much going through the same thing right now. what you have to do, is have a big girls night out, have a date with ben &jerry's, watch the notebook &just relax. what i did, was i deleted or threw away anything that reminded me of him. because it's like, you can't get over him, but he's the biggest asshole ever. focus on other guys, just flirt your brains outt. normally, that helps me and kind of lets me forget about him. &while your at it, listen to really happy musicc. this guy wasn't worth your time, and he's sounds like he's gonna go from girl to girl. and doll, you're better than that. i hope i helped, if you need anything else, leave one in my inbox. ♥___ntkkk
]
More Questions: |