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I dont want to be friends, how do i make them leave me alone
So my school year was stressfull full of drama.
I was looking forward to summer, because..well its summer & I woudlnt have to see the people who were pissing me off.
But I hate my youth group and theres a girl in it, who constantly in school, would be like"HI!" everytime she saw me in the hallway. ITS ANNOYING, shes a senior she graduated, I'm a freshman. I'll be a sophmore next year.
But she talks to me like I have no friends, she is the one who doesnt have friends. And i recently stopped going to my youth group, and I'm not going on the summer missiontrip. Because Ic ant deal with all them right now.
But my point is, I asked your advice abotu that girl who made a fake account on xanga, she CALLED ME ON THE PHONE, and acted like nothing happened, because she doenst know I knwo that that is her on xanga. I mean stressful, she acted like she did nothing wrong, wishing me a great summer, and that maybe we should hang out. NO i will not hang out with her, beacuse she attracts DRAMA wherever she goes, and I have no interest in being her frined.
But what gets me, is that youth group girl, SHE CALLED ME TODAY, but I told my brother to tell her I was busy. He said she wants to go out for coffee. OKAY, the point is she doesnt get I dont like her, and I dont want to be friends iwth her. She annoys the crap out of me, and i"m not trying to be mean, but HELLO, she is one of those people who is all hyper spazy, "lets be happy!" people,and I'm not.
ARGH, I dont go to my youth group because I dont like the poeple in it, they arent my friends. They are all fake sterytpical people, if you know what I mean.
And She thinks that I dont want to go because I dont have firensd there, and she's like "I'll be your frined." thats not the case, I DONT want to be friends with them. I think way differently and I always feel uncomfortable.
My mother says shes trying to be nice, but I mean.. cant a person get some SPACE? I was looking forward to not dealing with all this stress during summer, and I'm going to have to see everyone on sunday's at church, what do I do?
What can I do?
I'm so sorry this is so long
I jsut cant keep this in my anymore,
and I dont get to see my counsular until next week wednesday. :(
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I know EXACTLY what you mean. When I was in school I had the same thing with this girl. I finally just got mad enough I told her...I can't stand you. You are driving me insane, leave me the hell alone!
Know the response I got? Hehehe, I know you're just kidding, you're sooo FUNNY!
I don't know exactly what finally made her get the message. To be honest, I'm not sure she ever did. Like your bothersome people she was one of those really obnoxiously cheery things you just want to smack!
I just kept telling her. I don't want to hurt your feelings but we are NOT friends. I don't like you! One day she just got happy waving from
a distance and smiling.
I hated to do that but there are those people who just can't take a hint. I'm sure both girls just want to be friends with you. That one is a definite nut case and the other I'm sure means well, as your mom said, but is still annoying. She will most likely befriend someone else on the mission trip and bother them instead.
Hard as it is, because if your like me, you really don't want to hurt their feelings. Sometimes you just kind of have to. Just tell them you are busy all summer and don't have the time to hang out. If they continue to bug you...tell them you don't feel you have anything in common and just don't want to hang out. AND, if all else fails tell them you just don't want to be friends with them...leave me alone!
Good luck. Hope they get the hints! :)
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