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drunk phone calls
okay 2 nights ago i had some friends over and we decided to drink, and we all got really really really drunk. anyway, i found out that i called the boy i have a huge crush on and left a message telling him i like him. right now im talking to him on aim and he hasnt said anything. do you think hes not bringing it up because he has no feelings for me? or he doesnt know what to say?
im not really sure if i should like ask him if he got the message or apologize or tell him whats going on or whatever.. what should i do?!
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How do you know you rang him? If he hasnt said anything then i'm guessing your friends have told you. I dont think you should say anything to him just incase your friends are just joking.
I think if you had rang him then he would have said something to you, if you didnt and you apologise he's going to know that you like him anyway.
i'd leave it if i were you.
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He's still talking to you, so that's a good sign... well either that or he hasn't gotten the message yet.
I would bring it up though (in person), and after he says he got it just be like
"I'm sorry, I was really drunk. I'm so embarrassed and I don't want anything to become awkward between us"
Don't lie about liking him. If he likes you, he'd be grateful for the opportunity to find out how you feel about him. If he doesn’t he’ll understand that It was a mistake and hopefully get over it or realize how much he likes you too.
Personally, I love drunken phone calls. It always gives me the chance to do whatever I want or call whoever want without being shy because hey, you have the best excuse ever, “Omg I was so drunk” and people are always wondering whether you really meant it or not.
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Hey there! I kind of think that the guy you like is not bringing up the phone call because he doesn't know what to say, or is still surprised and startled that he needs to take it all in at the moment. Slowly try to question him about the message, and how you feel about it. In the message, was it really how you feel? You should explain to him then genuinely how you feel, and straight-forwardly, because when drunk, people may not have as much control over their words. Review your feelings, and tell him how you sincerely feel. I truly hope this works out... I wish you the best of luck.
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