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THANK GOD! your'e a guy! So tell me what are the steps in having a very physical, very intimate relationship with a guy? My bf and i have been dating for 3 months, and i really want to let him know that he doesnt have to be afraid to kiss me...or even perhaps do more. How can i tell him that i am ready for anything sexual when he is? What can i do so he'll want to be sexually inimate with me?
1. Trust
2. Honesty
3. Comfort
4. Respect (THE MOST IMPORTANT ONE)
5. Love
6. Affection
7. A friend
You want him to be sexually inimate to you? Thats only if he wants to be.
Give him body language or signs that you love him. For example if your sat on the coach with him, then perhaps lean your head and move very slowly towards him and at the same time talk to him slowly. Then once your a few centimeters infront of him, kiss him slowly for about 10 seconds. Remember to smile and use eye contact at all times while doing this. If he moves backwards, then ask him what wrong. Then if he says not now or this isnt the right time or whatever then just say "Hey its O.K was I moving to fast?". I suggest if that happens then maybe you two could have a break away from each other for a wee while. The easiest way really is to just be open to him and tell him that you love him. This can be a nervouse time but remember the more you talk to him the less shy you will feel. Remember to be yourself. The worst that could happen is you'll both remain friends. You can't loose really. This message is what I personally think you should do but its only a bit of advice. Let me know how things get on. Daniel. [ jumadel's advice column | Ask jumadel A Question ]
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