Alright well, I have a problem. My brothers best friend is turning 18 on the 17th. He's a senior, and I'm a freshman. I've known him my entire life pretty much, atleast since I was two years old. He's one of MY best friends, including one of my brothers. The thing is, throughout my entire life people were always telling me they though he really liked me, more than a friend. I thought this sometimes as well. He was always doing projects FOR me because he didn't want to see me fail, giving me rides home from school, etc. Well things hit their peak at my parents party. See, he said something to me, and I took it the wrong way, thinking he called me fat. He didn't mean it that way, but already being in a bad mood, I started crying in the car for about two hours. Eventually my other friend, Josh, got me out, got me drinking some red wine, and it basically led to my aunt getting me captian and cokes and me drinking until I got completely smashed. Well, I danced with him and whatnot, and I felt like I really, really liked him. Ever since then, he's been kinda awkward because he thinks since I was drunk, I didn't mean anything I did that night, and that I might still be mad at him. I guess what I'm asking is, given this, what should I say to him? I'm rather confused about the whole thing... but I want to tell him how I feel before he goes to college next year, because I care for him a lot.
But I dont think your aunt getting you drunk was a smart idea at all. But write him a letter other wise and give it to him before he goes to college, he wont be going until next year, since right now its summer..
but hope things work out!
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mmpichula answered Saturday June 10 2006, 2:30 am: well think about how you feel cause it sound slike he is perfect for you. just tell him that he means alot to you and the night you got drunk did mean something, just being smashed let you open up easier and you meant everything. tell him how important he is and how much he means..since youre like majorr tight. <3 hope it helps hun [ mmpichula's advice column | Ask mmpichula A Question ]
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