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why her?
I have awesome friends theres a group of us made up of girls and guys and we joke around about everything and you know the deal with friends thats just us... but in the group theres one girl who everyone likes or would go out with in a second i mean i love her to death too but i mean i dont see any difference between her and the rest of us, i mean she plays sports but so do the rest of us and were all kind of alike and we all have our different "fallbacks" if you know what i mean. i just dont understand. why is it like this?
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There is just some magic in some people. My best friend for years is tall, and pretty overweight, i'm about 5'4" blonde, 105 pounds etc., we go out and the guys are just all over her and I try to listen to what she says and all. All i can figure is that she gives off a much more approachable vibe, and most guys (except senior citizens and wierdos) don't have the nerve to approach me.
I've worked in sales and find that you have to be approachable, smiling, etc., don't sit back with your arms folded because it's very closed body language.
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Haha... I know EXACTLY what you mean, we have a group just like that at our school.
I know it may seem unfair that this girl gets all the attention, but it won't stay this way forever. There's always a "flavor of the moment": As people mature, their tastes will change. So maybe right NOW this girl is constantly being hit on, but that's only because the guys currently have interest with her. I'll bet you that come September, all of the tastes and interests will have changed and they'll move on. I wouldn't worry about it... If it's a huge problem, perhaps you could talk to her? That's my best advice.
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