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my boyfriend is leaving for summer! ok..so me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months..and he says he loves me and all that good stuff and things go pretty good..but he does get mad at me a lot..but that is besides the point..well i live in alaska and he is goin to spend his whole summer in virginia..and we have been on and off about breaking up or staying together..and we have agreed on staying together..but i am pretty worried because last summer my ex left for summer and ended up breaking up with me for some chick that doesnt even live in alaska!..i also can get pretty jealous and ill have no idea what hes doing in virginia unless he always tells the truth..so should i stay with him or take a break? i really dont want to break up because i love him but would splittin up be best?
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Taking up a break ONLY because he is going somewhere else for a little while doesn't seem like the answer to me. When you truly love someone you make it work and give it 100% regardless of how many miles there will be between you if he really does in his heart love you, he will be faithful to you and yall can make this work. Only you know what the right thing is to do here... if you really do want to make this work and are just having some worries, then sit him down and talk to him about it, I'm sure he can ease your mind a bit. Also, you said ur EX did that to you last summer... always remember in a NEW relationship... Don't blame a new love for things an old one did. Think about me... I'm married to a Marine and he can be sent to Iraq, Afghanistan, anywhere that's even farther away but I know in my heart I would be faithful to him...because I love him that much. ]
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