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Are we still bestfriends?
Well my bestfriend moved away from me a long time ago and before she lefted she said we would always befriends and i cryed for 3 hours and she kept going to the same school as me and then i thought yea our friendship we never break in half. so then my bestfriend just stoped coming to school so my mom called her mom do ask what happened so her mom she yea Janice moved to another school. i was so sad i started to cry again . since she moved to another school she have not been calling me all the time sometimes she dont even call me its like she forgot all about me. i asked her a while ago we should go to the movies or hang out or something like that and she was like no i was kind of shocked. now when she calls me she talks about her friends and how they do all this stuff together and how she have all these friends and i feel sad cause i know now that we are not bestfriends any more like me use to and that makes me cry because we was always going to stay bestfriends until the end! now what do you think i really need yall help.
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well i actually was in a similar situation myself..my best friend moved to another state and i STILL feel like she has forgotten i ever existed...my advice to you would be to just let her go...if she doesnt want to keep the bond strong then you shouldnt be wasting your time and energy on her when you could be using that to devote to the friends you have in your life right now that mean the world to you...i would talk to her and flat out ask her if she wants to keep being friends and if she says like no or somethin like i dunno then thats how you know that she isnt someone that is going to contribute to your life in a positive way...move on..it will be hard at first but you can make it
goodluck!!
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Stuff like this has happened to me before-- it has happened to everyone. It's hard to keep in contact with a person after they move. They meet new people, their interests change, soon you both have nothing in common. She's moved on and that's the best thing you can do right now. You'll miss her, but you'll have all the great memories together of the time when you were friends. I'm sure you will find the perfect person to be your best friend in no time.
Go and spend more time with your other friends and less time thinking about this.
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