Hi Elcee,
thanks for your response! I can't speak with the ex because he's in prison for attempted murder--he ran a guy off the road and said guy now is paralyzed. The ex is a psychopath! Two weeks before he ran the guy off the road, he came at me in his car in a parking lot and veered at the last minute and glared at me. I had a restraining order before (when he took an axe and sledgehammer to my former house) but obviously I need to get another. I'm ill with a disability so a defense course isn't in the cards until I get better. My present boyfriend knows everything about the ex and I'm living with him and none of our friends know what his address is. Any other advice?
Again, thanks for your response--musicfan
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Mental health? Elcee answered Friday June 2 2006, 2:17 pm: Thank you very much for coming back to me. It is a dreadful situation and I can't imagine for one moment how it feels to be there. With any luck your ex will remain in prison for a good long time. This will let you get on with your life with your boyfriend. I am also sorry to hear that you are unwell at the moment and hope that you have a speedy recovery. It is a good idea to keep your present address secret for the moment just as long as your friends/family can keep in touch with you. From what you say it seems to me as if your ex is intimidating you without actually physically harming you. Has he ever laid a hand on you? He has driven at you and attacked your house and that is frightening in itself so if he does get out of prison, continue to be observant and aware at all times. I can only wish you the very best of luck for the future and I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. [ Elcee's advice column | Ask Elcee A Question ]
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