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my boyfriend is shy
well my boyfriend is shy but not like talking shy or being around me shy. i have been going out with him for about 3 weeks and he hasn't hugged me or held my hand or anything. no physical contact what-so-ever. i am wondering ..is that bad? and what does it mean?? and if i should like make a move by holding his hand or kissing him or hugging him. i don't want him to get hte wrong impression or anything. i just am not sure. i really need help because he is really shy physically and i want to know if we should hug or something. sure he always hangs around me and always talks to me. he said he has liked me since late-March. which is a good thing but i just don't see why he won't hug me or anything.i don't wnat him to be a sex hungry person though i don't want him to go crazy becuase i don't want to have sex untill i am married.
thanks i would really appreciate it
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First off, I'm glad your gonna be a virgin until marraige. So am I!
Ok so I think your boyfriend is just scared. He definetly likes you, maybe a lot more think, because it might be he respects you too much to touch you. I would suggest not being so stiff around him. If you act more spontaneous and flirty he won't be intimidated at all. Like if your surprised to see him, be like OMG! Then reach out and hug him. Don't jump on him or anything though he might be freaked out. Be casually cool.He might be surprised but most likely he won't say anything and he'll get used to it, and he will hug you. Let him be the first to kiss you though. After a while of this openess he won't be shy around you and he should kiss you. If you act natural he might go with the flow too. You may even want to start with around the neck one armed hugs, just as a causual everyday thing. You see him in the morning and you can be like "Hey! Just hug him around the neck with one arm. It's less overwhelming and he'll like it. If this doesn't work you have to talk to him about how you feel. Be like, "Well it's been a while now and this relationship seems to friend like." most likely he will ask "What do you mean?" You can be like "Well we haven't even held hands, hugged, or even kissed yet. Its like you've never touched me and were dating!" "Are you shy around me or something, because you don't have to be. I really like you." He'll get it. good luck!
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