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My crush
Hi.. I have a huge problem! And I don't know what to do anymore!. I am like in love with my brothers best friend. The thing is that I have a very overprotective brother and uncle + family. His friend kind of likes me at least I think. My uncle told me he does but I don't know.. he told me he does but my uncle also told me that its not gonna happen between us because he doesn't want me to date him n he will kill him if he goes out with me. Now when you see this guy you will be like eww… what are you thinking you and him!! Cause hes so big and im so small. But that's not the point. When you will see this guy you will be like eww, hes dirty, but when you get to kno him he is the cutest thing ever. Our age is very close. Im 16 hes 17 turning 18. You would probably think y don't you guys sneak out…well if we do and they find out they will kill him and me.. and + im not that kinda of girl.. you know. Im a very good girl. I don't do anything kno im 16 and I haven't done anything…I haven't even kissed a guy before.. N he has done EVERYTHIHNG YOU COULD EVER DO!..From what I herd is that he doesn't date he is a guy were he meets a girl and he does stuff with her and leaves her the next day. He doesn't believe in relationship. But with me he doesn't seem like hes that kind of guy hes really sweet and he tells me everything. He always makes himself look good in front of me. When I ever try to be sweet to him he becomes mean. But when I become mean hes nice to me. I don't get it. Also when ever he would be over and I like don't talk to him and stuff he comes to me. And when I do he like acts like I kno you like me just hurry up and give me attention. Hahah. But I feel like with me he gives me a lot of attention and he also takes the time to get to know me he doesn't treat me like he treats other girls that he Fucks. See I don't know if I am wasting my time with him or if I should stay with him. Because remember from what my uncle says I cant date him and I have to listen to my brother and uncle. Because they are not as worse as my parents. But I really like this guy and I can't get him OFF! my head. If I really had time I would write u and 20-page paper about what happens between us.
help please <33
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well i dont need a 20pg paper to tell you this. you have fallen for him. but he seems like hes more into hookups then relationships. and if you arent interested in being a hookup, then (i know this isnt what you wanna hear) maybe he isnt the best choice of a guy for you. as for him being mean and such, some guys are jerks when they like you. and when you are just there so they can have you, it almost seems like they dont want you. they like a challenge and they like to come get you. since he has done so much, and you so little- im not sure if you would also be comfortable with him. what if he tried ot push you into doing things? you would prolly let him because your so into him and dont want him to dump you or whatever. if your thinking i would never do that, most girls are like you. they dont think they'd do it- but once they are in the situation, they end up doing it or even more than they thought. because of the fact you have really overprotective relatives, dating is going to be hard. and since he is your brothers friend- its most likely going to be super awkward at some times. in this situation, and you feel like you really cant give him up, then i think you should talk to your brother. find out what he thinks about you dating his friend, and you might find out things you didnt know. hun, i dont wanna tell you that you should get over him, but i do think at this point, its the best choice. and i deffinitally dont reccommend sneaking out (like you said) because if they found out, they would be super mad. i understand you like him, and he leaves you like wanting more, but theres better guys out there - i swear. onces who want you whether you go after them or not, and ones who treat you like a princess. im sorry, but he kinda sounds like a jerk and i dont think you should get any more involved in him. sorry,..
hope this helps!! :] ♥
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