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what do i do
Hi,
My boi looks at porn and fatisizez about otha girls while he masterbates. He sayz he dose it out of respect 4 me but I don’t beleve him. Do you think he is cheating. How do I tell him to do it over me without comin across as a slut
Xx jessi
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I don't really know what to say with this one, but I did say on my column that I'd answer any question that came to me, so here goes.
He says he has "respect" for you, but why shouldn't he have respect for them too? Just because he's not going out with them doesn't make them any less of a person. What he's doing is using them as a means to his own end.
Anyway, it's normal to only want to be the only girl your boyfriend ever thinks about. Us girls can get pretty jealous, lol. I have no idea how old you are, or how long you guys have been together, but I think that.. yeah.. it should be you he's thinking about.
Maybe you should tell him that it really bothers you. I'm suprised he actually told you anyway, as most guys would be too ashamed to admit that to their girlfriends. Maybe he's feeling guilty about it. Communication is the key to any relationship, so let him know how you're feeling. If he really "respects" you he'll stop looking at porn and focus solely on you. If not, you might have to wonder if he's worth it. Most guys look at porn, but the genuine ones have the decency to put it away when they're with a girl. Consider that.
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