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parents,guys,sex,pregnancy
i'm 15/f i recently had sex with two guys. they didn't use protection and i am not on the pill. i think i might be pregnant and i only know one of the guys i slept with. i'm really worried on how to confront my parents. i really need some pointers on how to tell them and how to find the other guy so i can find out which one is the father. i'm certain i'm pregnant!
-Sarha
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You are certainly in a difficult situation. If you have been keeping track of your periods and know the first day of your last menstrual cycle you can estimate when ovulation and conception may have happened. See this site for more information: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
Now, if you had sex on the same day with different guys, or even a day or two a part you will not be able to tell who the father is without a paternity test which can be done after the baby is born. If you know one of the guys, it will basically be a process of elimination, if he is..the other guy is not. As far as finding the other guy, you will have to do a bit of investigating. Use the internet, ask around...hire a PI if you are able.
My suggestion is, if you plan to keep the baby go to an organization such as Luthern Social Services or Birthright and ask for resources that can help you. Once you have accomplished this, and at least a first medical check up sit down with your parents and just come right out and tell them. They will be shocked, but hopefully after a little time passes they will want to help you.
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