Hi there, i was hoping you could offer some advice...Ive been dating a recently seperated 31 year old guy...His wife cheated on him and he caught her..they have 2 young boys 2 and 4. He has recently bought a new unit and has been finalising the details of their finances...He claims he is over her and i have nothing to worry about...we have so much fun together and im really falling for him...
Is it possible he really could be ready to move on so soon ( he left her 6 months ago after he tryed to get her to see a therapist)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LouellaWalters26 answered Tuesday May 30 2006, 10:15 am: Well, although I cannot guarentee anything, 6 months is a sufficient amount of time. When I met up with this guy I knew from high school some years ago, he was still on & aff with his girlfriend. In fact he was supposed to hook up with her that night! She didn't show of course, because she was messin' around with someone else. So, we "hooked up" and we have been happily married now for 7 years. So, never give up hope. The best thing you can do is be there for him, but, also give him his space just in case. Don't forget, they do have children together & unfortunatley that will bind them for life, but, try not to show signs of jealousy & he will notice that about you & think your great for it. Sometimes, a relationship is just too far gone to go back. So, give it some time, keep hangin' out & having fun & maybe in time he will feel the same way for you that he used to feel about her. Good Luck to ya & I hope it works out! [ LouellaWalters26's advice column | Ask LouellaWalters26 A Question ]
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