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To Derek, Or Not To Derek?
Hi Amy, Long time reader, first time writer. So there's this dude...
I REALLY like this dude...
As far as I can tell he likes me too. Here's the issue:
He works at a store downtown, one that I pass by almost EVERYDAY. I have infact needed a few things that are sold at his store, and have bought them elsewhere for more money because I didn't want him to think that I was a creepy stalker.
He has a busy schedule, so we're not around eachother more than once a week. This is nice, because there's no pressure. but is it weird to avoid someone you like so much so often?
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Yes, it IS weird to avoid someone you like!
I wouldn't recommend stopping into the store he works in everyday when you pass by... that would be weird... but the occational (once a week at most) 'Hi, I was in the neighborhood' -or- 'Just dropped by to pick up this thing-a-mabobber' does not seem creepy or stalkeresque -Especially if you are paying extra to purchase thing-a-mabobbers elsewhere.
It's been my experience that boys (much like girls) enjoy it when members of the opposite sex make them feel special... not avoid them like the plauge.
I say: To Derek!
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