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first off, you are such a good advice giver..
a while back i told you about my friend whos turning into a goth because of her other best friend and shes not changing, like i sent her a note and everything and she didnt change and now she keeps skipping classes and getting detentions and i think i should just stop being near her because she's a really bad influence but shes my best friend so i dont know what to do.. i might change schools next year but i found out her 'gothy' best friend smokes, cuts, and does all that stuff. my friend promised she would never start that stuff but who knows whats next =/
:( please try & help
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
You can dress like the "goth" crowd without really being like them. Lets hope that's all your friend is doing.
Does she treat you differently? If not then as far as being friends go, it is probably OK for you to stay friends with her. So long as you know not to smoke or cut maybe you will be a GOOD influence on her. If she does start cutting or anything, tell her mom.
I'd almost bet that she likes this other friend mostly because she is so different. HOPEFULLY, she will outgrow the behavior over the summer.
If you honestly feel she is a bad influence on you though, do what you have to do. Maybe if you don't hang around with her for a while she will miss you and decide hanging out with a hooligan isn't what she really wants to do.
Good luck and don't get talked into anything! :)
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