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my two best friends are mad at me!!1 Please Help!!
I am a girl and I am 13 and I have two really good friends but they are mad at me and they dont even have a reason to be. At school they are just ignoring me and doing really mean stuff!
I am so sad and confused I have no idea what to do at all!!
please tell me if i should just stay away or ignore them or try talking again and what should I say!? i dont want to appoligize becuase i am always the one appoligizing and this time it would be for nothing even though they want me to! It sucks i just feel like moving schools I have other friends but those are my best friends
Do you know what I should do?
PLEASE answer I need ADVICE!!
--SOconfused
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Dear So Confused,
I have been in your position before. And I know, it's not a fun position to be at.
Basically your friends just want to take control of you, just being mad at you for "no reason," for that what it sounds like to me.
They just probably want the attention, and for you to look like a fool, because you always go back to them and apoligize for something stupid/you didn't do.
This needs to stop. They just want you to feel used or just basically taking control of you.
They know for a fact, if they keep telling you they're mad at you for 'no apparent reason' they just want the attention and for you to cry back to them.
If you keep on apoligizing for things you didn't do, they're just going to repeat the process again and again.
The best thing to do is ignore them, your not they're apoligizer (if that is even a word) and they can't take control of you.
And you can find better friends that can treat you right, and doesn't make you feel like every little thing you did was a problem.
Hope I helped, and good luck! ]
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