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How can I still be friends with the guys who want to date me
Cj you seem to be a very smart guy that knows what you are talking about. I need your help. I have these two guys who like me, but we have been freinds for a long time. I am a HUGE people pleaser and i know you cant always please people. I need to know how I can tell them that I just want to be their friend with out comming across mean or making them feel bad. They really are good guys I just dont want a relationship right now since I just got out of one.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Alright, Just pull of looking depressed one day, they will talk to you because you are there friend. Then just say that you feel bad because some body dumped you. they will be" There are better people out there" then you just pretend to look a little bit better, then say "your a really good friend, and you are so right, but I don't want to get into any more relations ships right now, I just am not ready."
And they will undersatnd. You come across as not mean, and M if you spice up the dialouge a bit with some compliments, they may walk out of it without feeling bad.
Cj
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