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so i have sort of a dilemma, haha. k, so everytime i like a guy, he always seems to like one of my friends and not me. it happens all the time. like, right when i think they're starting to like me, they go and ask out one of my friends. guys always tell me that they like me as a friend. i don't get it, i mean i'm really nice, people tell me i'm very pretty, and i'm not selfish, unlike half the girls at my school. maybe they don't like me because i'm not that confident and i guess i'm quiet sometimes. but still, alot of my friends who are way more shy than me have alot of guys after them. so my question is: should i be more outgoing, or am i looking too hard and just wait it out until a guy who really likes me for who i am ? thanks<3
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really, im sorry but it must suck. honestly, maybe you should do both. theres nothing wrong with beocming a little more outgoing. as long as your still yourself, and you are still comfotable. dont go to a certian point where you feel uncomfortable and not yourself. that will only lead to a big mess [ ex- dancing on a table at a dance club, you prolly wouldnt feel comfortable doing it, but some people would. ] and you should deffinitally wait until the guy that likes your FOR YOU comes along,. ofcorse- until then, you might have to live with just being the friend. or maybe you can meet some people and just not introduce them to your friends. maybe go to the movies, or a summer camp or a teen hangout place around or something, you know. just to meet new people, it will also help with your confidence level. maybe just try walking up to a cute guy and being like hey i thought you were cute so i wanted to walk over and say hi. im [yournamehere]. or something be comfortable, and you can always start over. and the best part with that is that you prolly wont see those people again, unless you plan too. so you could be a complete goofball. just try different levels and figure out what feels right. guys are attracted to confidence though. good luck and if you need more help, you are ALWAYS welcome to leave a message in my inbox.
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