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Oral sex
hate oral sex but my boy friend loves it. He spends too much time down there both my vagina and anus. What are the desease chances? what measures should I take? Please give advice.
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You can get many STDs and HIV from oral sex, the risks are only slightly less then they are with sexual intercourse. You can use a dental dam or condom while having oral sex to reduce the risks greatly but there are no hidden tricks for making sex safer: Use protection, get tested, trust your partner, and get your partner tested.
As for oral-anal sex, or rimming, your boyfriend going back and forth from your anus to your vagina can very easily spread bits of bacteria and even less pleasant stuff that causes nasty and uncomfortable (but rather simple to cure) vaginal infections. Licking through a condom or dam is by far the safest way to go but even if you don't use one you should NEVER allow cross-contamination when having any sort of anal sex, if something (like a tongue) is playing with your anus it should not go near your vagina or lips until it has been cleaned (brushed and rinsed with an anti-bacterial mouthwash too.)
But if you really don't like it, don't put up with it. It's your body after all and you are an equal partner is the sexual act. I'd certainly encourage you to relax and give it a fair chance, but if your boyfriend is doing something that makes you uncomfortable, tell him to stop or even better, tell him how to do it right!
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