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This guy at school has been calling me really mean names such as a fucking bitch and a skank. I found out about it and I was really mad but I just let it go. Then, he started calling me it again so I went up to him and asked him politely to stop. Then, he now did it a THIRD time. I'm just really mad now and I feel there's nothing I can do exept tell the teacher. If I tell my teacher, he could get expelled from the school because my principal is REALLY big about harrasment. I'm not sure if I want him to get in trouble. But I'm sick of him making fun of me. Do you think I should tell a teacher? And why?
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2 wrongs don't make a right. i know it hurts that he is calling you names... but don't let that person see that it bothers you, because if he sees that it is making you mad, then he will continue to do it... talk to your teacher about it... and just ask her/him not to take it to the principal since you do not want to get him expelled, just ask the teacher to keep an eye on him, and when he/she sees him saying something rude, then she can stop it or whatever... just don't let it get to you, and go on with your day... think of it this way---- he feels insecure about himself, so he has to make others feel worse so he can feel better... just know people love and care about you .. and just ignore him
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calling him it back wont help. i think that you should just tell. i mean, he deserves it. you shouldnt be treated like that. or just threaten him with that....i dont know if thatll help any but its worth a try
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You could say a comeback to him. For example like what if I called you a bitch retard?( I know a little too harsh) but it might show him to stop.
~snowi
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I understand how you feel and you must be a very caring and compassionate person to be concerned about him after what he has done to you. That is very admirable.
The problem is that maybe you are being TOO nice about it. I know it might sound harsh but the fact is that more than anything else, this guy needs to learn that he just can't treat other people like this. It's not decent behaviour and he shouldn't be allowed to get away with it.
At the end of the day, we all have to learn to accept the consequences to our actions and the only way he will do this is if you do something about it. So be brave, stand up and say something. You deserve to be treated with some respect.
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