Ren, Howl, and I had been best friends since third grade, which is more like forever (But now I've moved to other school, we're kinda far apart) Howl had been crushing on me since fourth grade and Ren since sixth grade. And the problem is, I can't decide which one of them I should go out with. (I kinda liked Howl in fifth grade and Ren in sixth grade)Ren is this popular one with all ladies by his side, and Howl is the quite one, never wants to talk to anyone except for me, and Ren (but Ren is always busy)Ren always comes to me when he has problems, and Howl always waits for me to come and talk to him when he's sad (they're so different. Ren is confident and Howl is so shy) And I can never hurt one of them, I mean, we're like best friends forever! I think I care about Howl more, but Ren is now asking me out. I don't know what to say or what to do. And Howl is still waiting for me too. I really can't think of anything else! What can I do? Which one do you think I should go out with?
DefinedEyes answered Tuesday May 16 2006, 3:46 pm: You cant choose to date a guy on what his obvoius traits are, and how he acts around you and other people. You need to get to know another person, and have common interests, and a good connection with them. It doesnt matter how long they have liked you, but if you also like them back..
So I cant really help you with who you should choose, but I hope what I said will make you think a little bit.
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