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hey, i just wanted you to know that i picked you to ask a question because i appreciate your honesty. okay well, lately my boyfriend has been telling me that im kinda fat but then hes like no offence, or hes like just kidding afterwards. but, it still kinda gets to me, i mean say anything to me i know how to brush it off but ond ttell your girl shes fat, ya know you just dont do it. haha, but everytime in on the phone with him im eating and hes like maybe you shouldcut back or osmething, and im like what am i fat or something ?
if you have any suggestions please let me know. i know its not really a question, i just wanna know how to handle the situation because deciding for myself would be me thinking about it to much. thanks ! =]
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Thanks hun. =) Your boyfriend shoulnd't be telling you that you're fat. It's rude and it's not something that should matter in a relationship. He should like you for who you are not because of your weight. It's best if you talk to him and just let him know that it gets to you when he says that kind of stuff. It's better to be honest in any relationship and I'm sure he doesn't say that to hurt your feelings but just tell him that it bothers you. You shoulnd't change how you look or do anything just to pleasure his personal taste in girls. Don't do anything like that, please. If he doens't like the way you are then screw him. You could defenetly find someone better who would treat you as good as you deserve. I know you might feel a bit uncomftrable to talk to him and letting him know your feelings, but in order for you guys to have a good relationship, you have to be open with one another.
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