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What Do I Do!!!??
First of all I am 13/f.My bf and I have been going out for a month or so.He gets horny when I dance,talk "sweet",and stuff like that.He wants to have sex with me,but he understands why I won't and want to wait til I am older.I am very mature for my age and so is he.I am sexually attracted to him,and you already know he's sexually attracted to me.He,by the way,is 13 too.I know all about std so don't bother preaching to me about that,I like him and we have french kissed before,believe it or not,we are inlove.He has had sex b4 but I haven't so this would be my first time if I did do it with me.He loves me and he is not using me so dont say that.Well what should I do!??
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I deffinatly agree with the first answer. 13? no matter how old you are, that is not an age to be considering having sex. You cannot say you are "in love" because you do not know what "in love" is, I'm 16 and I may not even know. It is true that maybe if you say with the same person for a long long time, you will eventually fall "in love" with this person but I can guarantee you are not right now. Sex is supposed to be for love not lust and just because he gets "horny" doesn't mean you should lose your viginity. When you are older you will look back and remember how stupid that mistake was and how much you regret it.
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Your 13....
and most certainly NOT in love. You've dated a month and want to have sex? I don't care but I will tell you no 13 year old is ready for sex, no matter how mature and responsible you are.
And your asking us if you should have it? No you shouldn't. In fact you asking clearing indicates you are NOT ready at all.
How about you wait a few years. Because I can gaurantee you nothing good will come of you having sex now. What's the point?
That is my two cents, and I am sure I won't be the only one to say what has been said.
-Ryan
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