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friends!
Kinda long....ill rate a 5
alright well about a year ago i started hanging out with this girl lets call her brooke. i was 17 when i started hanging out wit her and she was 14...well before i started hanging out with her i had soo many friends(not to brag or anything like that) i mean i was always out and always had something to do...well i used to be friends with this other girl before i started hanging out with brooke...me and this other girl stopped being friends because she got a boyfriend and then they got engaged and moved in together and all that crap...well i started hanging out with brooke and since ive been hanging out with her ive pushed all of my other friends away. Now brooke has a boyfriend. I mean this girl lies to everybody about everything and all she ever wants to do is get high. Now a few days ago me and brooke got into a fight and now were not friends anymore...i dont know what to do i mean i pushed everybody outta my life just to hang out with this one girl and now she doesn't wanna hang out with me anymore..im really stuck and i feel like i just wanna die...please help thanks!
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hey there! dying isn't all it's cracked up to be- believe me iv been dead before(lol) Maybe you should try talking to your other friends and asking them if they want to hang out or something. My friends are usually quite 4giving if they are real freinds they should understand.
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Sometimes when we find a really cool person to hang out with we tend to push other people away. Now if your other friends are true friends they will understand and start wanting to hang out with you again. Besides it is never too late to make new friends.
I had a lot of friends in high school and then after we all graduated I ended up with one friend, a husband and a baby. She was single so we stopped talking for a while until she met her hubby and had kids then we started talking again. Now we are best friends and we really only have each other outside of our family.
I hope you realize it really isnt your fault that you started hanging out with "brooke" exclusively. You just simply found a friend you felt was worth your time. And your other friends just didnt really fit at that moment. So try to talk to them and see what they have to say. If they want an appology give them one and hopefully things will work out for you.
If they dont then you can always try to make new friends. And sometimes that turns out to be the best thing for us.
Good luck,
sassie
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