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Lonely...
Ok, my best friend and my other good friend are going out with two guys who are best friends. One of them I'm also close friends with, and the other one I used to like (and then he started going out with my friend, long, messy, story). So anywayz, they are ALWAYS planning double dates and are leaving me out because I don't have a boyfriend. It's not intentional but it amkes me really want a boyfriend. I know that probably sounds really insecure and stupid, but it's true. What should I do, if anything?
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Well this has to suck knowing that your friends are making dates without you.
The best thing that you can do is ask your friends to give these double dates a rest and have a girls night out or something.
Or you can try hanging out with some other friends you have. If you have a friend who you don't talk to that much, try talking to them more and make them a good friend. It can't hurt to have other friends to have fun with.
You aren't insecure and stupid for wanting to have a boyfriend. It's a normal desire for people to have. Everyone wants to fall in love.
-TheTeenGirl
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Well in my opinion, the best bet is to talk to your friends and tell them how you feel.
I know, I know its a very common answer... but people suggest it because it works. =)
What I am also going to tell you that is very important is don't go out and date any guy who likes you just because you want to be included. That will end up bad and lead into a breakup because technically it's like using him.
Well, I think you should just talk to them and take it from there. They're just going to keep on doing it if they are unaware it is hurting you.
Hope I helped =)
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