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Friend Verse Group
Ok, so I have alot of friends, not trying to brag or anything. I've best friends with two groups, so I have like 20 wicked good friends. However, one group of 10 does not mix easily with the other group, and really one two of us get along really well with both groups.
Anywayz, that is just some background, here's the main problem...
I'm going to the carnival with one of these groups, but the other group wants me to go with them, especialy this one girl. That girl doesn't have anyone else to go with because she has a really busy schedule and can only go at a certain time. She's thinking of coming and hanging out with us BUT most of the friends I'm going with don't like her. One of her worst enemies is in our group and it would just be a mess. Who do I go with? What do I do? If I go with the group (which I really want to), how do I let it down to my friend?
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I think that it's mature that the friend in the opposite group is willing to try going with the other group to hang out.
However, you mentioned that a lot of the girls in this group dislike her. If these reasons are extreme, like a fist fight, or a really bad verbal fight, then I wouldn't try it.
If it was something like backstabbing or 'stealing' a boyfriend, then maybe you can ask this group of friends to be mature for a while and accept her. Just let them know the situation and ask them to at least try acting like they get along so that this carnival experience will go smoothly.
If you don't think it will work because of a strong conflict between this friend and the group, then maybe you should go ahead to the carnival with the group, and when this friend can go, then meet with her and hang out for a while. It can't really hurt to try hanging out with different friends.
-TheTeenGirl
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