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MOVING
The Old One,
Please help-
I am a 40 yr old woman
I have to make a decision and I am totally confused about my situation. I have to move from my home soon--The owner of my house is moving back to it--and I have a bit of a financial situation--which is only temp, by the way,and I have to make a decision of which one of my friends to stay with for a while. I really need the financial help--and need to ask someones asst at this time-
#1 Says he is in love with me- owns a house and told me I can live there, BUT his house is filthy (and I am a clean nut!)-we dated for sometime and breifly splitting up twice-both times he went out with and slept with diff women--claims he learned there is noone like me!
#2 Says he is in love with me-BUT-we dated a few years ago and he was married come to find out-- he is a nice guy-now divorced -=lives in a really nice apt complex-says for me to come live with him--he will help pay for my bills and I will have my own room and be there for companionship
#3 Says he wants a relationship but friendship is more important--says for me to come and stay with him as long as I need to--he has extra rooms --nice guy--makes over 100,000 a yr--BUT has all these women friends that are DANCERS and does not like dogs (i have a sm dog)
THER YOU HAVE IT-
I do not have any other choices at the moment--what would you suggest?
Please e-mail me@kay.seahouse@adelphia.net
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I'm awfully sorry, but I won't be able to answer this here as I am leaving Advicenators. If you want to write to me directly, I can be reached at pmaranci@gmail.com. Wait, I see you've left your email address; I'll write to that.
That said, I wish you could find some other living option. Whenever romance and charity mix, the results are often disasterous.
I'll give your question more thought and write back as soon as I can.
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