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hurt,
well. this is the thing, theres this guy. he kept looking at me and we i saw him he always looked at me and looked like he was talking to me his friends. not in a bad way, i would never of thought he liked me sooo i went with that anyways. i thought he liked me and all, and i started to like him too. but then i saw that he started going out with his ex-girlfriend and NOW im like soo hurt. i dont even know if he liked me or thought that i liked him and thats why he was like looking at me and talking about me [i think he was]
signed.
hurt and confused
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Forget about this guy. He's obviously not worth your time. Find a new guy, spend time with friends and forget about him. You're young and have a ton of time left for guys. Don't let one jerk keep you down!
-Laura (17-f)
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I'm sorry that you're hurt and confused. Guy's claim to be "simple", but honestly, they really aren't. Yes, he could've been talking about you. But, you don't know that for sure. It doesn't mean that just because he stared a lot that he likes you. Some guys, even when they talk to there friends, just look up to check a girl out. Girls do the same thing. Yes, when we stare at guys sometimes..we like them. But, guys..they usually will stare at any girl they think is hot, pretty, and/or interesting in some way. Have you ever listened to a guys conversation when they see a good-looking girl? They usually start going on and on about how "hot" she is. Well, maybe he was doing that?
I know it can be hurtful to see that he is with his ex girlfriend again. But, you even said yourself. You never knew if he liked you in the first place. It's possible, as I said before, he just thought you were pretty and stared at you sometimes. I mean, it can be possible he did like you..but, he's with his ex girlfriend again. So, who knows?
Next time, try talking to a guy you like. Get to know him and everything. I'm not sure if you talked to this guy before or anything, but the best way to find out if someone is interested is to ASK or you can even have friends do it.
Remember: Guy's can't read minds!
Hope I helped! :)
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