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how can i return him back?
Feel so misarable..lost my only love..have no words to describe how i feel inside.Do not wish such misery even to my enemies.Bit by bit losing my last hope,he won't be mine any more..I need him back..please help
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I am so sorry this has happened to you. I know how you feel but I can promise you two things. Firstly, you DON'T need him and secondly you WILL get over him. I know it might feel like you're falling down a deep dark well and that you just can't carry on and be happy without him but if you were happy with him and he turned out not to be your 'one', imagine how much better life can be when you find him.
For now, the best thing I can suggest to you is that you buy a HUGE box of Kleenex (Balsam because it's better for the hooter!), a very large tub - or tubs - of ice cream and any other fattening dessert you fancy. Get a couple of weepy movies and lock yourself away in your room for two full days, in your pyjamas. Then let loose. Cry, scream, kick, rip up photos with his face on. Try writing him a letter, telling him all your feelings and then burn it or rip it up. Do NOT send it, because this will only cause you a lot of embarrassment in the future (sadly, something I say from first hand experience!!) but completely destroy it.
After you have had your two days fully grieving for the relationship you once had, arrange a night out with some friends. Get yourself pampered by doing a full facial, manicure and pedicure. Put on your best outfit and go out with your friends. Slap a HUGE smile on your face (nothing attracts the opposite sex like a bright smile - regardless of boob size!) and have your heart set on ensuring you have a damned good night. Every time you think about him, try to smile at the good times you had and then kick the thought away, trying to remember you can have that again with someone you will have a true love with in the future.
Don't worry too much and don't let your heart stay broken. If you don't fix it, it will be too hard to let someone else in. Chin up. You will be fine, I promise.
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Well I dont really get what happened, did you break up? & your age would be helpful.
But anyways, if you broke up, and you really love him and want him back.Try to get him back, tell him, talk to him, explain how you feel, and how strong your feelings are, if he doesnt love you back like that, he isnt the one for you,you deserve to be loved just like you love him.
I've been in this situation before,and it really takes a lot of time, and people being available to talk to you to get over it.
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