I broke up with my boyfriend, because I was scared. I have heard rumors he still likes me, and rumors he hates my guts. I still really like him, and I'm ready to accept the fact that being afraid of something new will not make me give up.
I want to pull him aside and tell him this,
" Hey, um, yeah well, I still really like you, and I miss you alot. And breaking up with you was a stupid mistake thats hard to explain, I was just scared. I wanted to know if theres any chance of us going back out again, cause if theres not, I want to stop trying, and stop holding on to that last bit of false hope"
Will that work? Or should I say something different. I'm not trying to make him feel bad, I wanna know the truth, please help =]
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xo1234 answered Sunday May 7 2006, 6:08 am: I would talk to him, either on the phone or in person. Don't do it on the computer though. As easy as it is on the computer, for this type of situation you will need to see or hear his reactions. Try saying something along these lines:
"Hey, I've been hearing that you hate me, and I mean I hope you don't because I really like you. I broke up with you because I was scared, but now I regret it." See his reaction, he might just ask you out again, if he doesn't than you could say something like " Would you ever consider us going back out again?"
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