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hey
ok so ive been asking everybody this that answered the qeustion about my friend situation and how we got in a big fight do u think i should have my friend beth who is friends with both of us 2 tell her im over the fight thx
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That's a tricky one because you have said you can't remember what the fight was about. If your ex-friend reminded you of something really horrible that was said about you, could you let it go?
As long as you could then by all means tell her you are over it. However, don't get a friend to do it. Firstly because it then puts your friend in the middle of your fight, which I am sure you would never really want to do. Secondly because you will know that anything you hear from your ex-friend direct has not been misunderstood or altered in any way and you can ask questions back directly, based on what she says.
I know that it's really horrible to have to face people about these things but in the long run it really is so much easier. It will be hard to get he to talk to you so perhaps you could take a sort of 'peace offering', of something that she really likes, so that if she doesn't want to talk to you, you can try to persuade her with this. Also, I know that you can't remember what was said but apologise anyway. Tell her you are sorry for whatever you said and whatever happened and you just wish you could be friends again.
If she doesn't listen at first, keep trying. If she was a good friend and you really believe you can have that same friendship again, it's worth persisting at it.
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