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leading me on?
okay so my really good guy friend that goes to a diff school then me says all this sweet talk to me and tells me how much he likes me and stuff and i really like him too but then all my other friends tell me that he flirts with other girls at his school. i duhn know if hes just leading me on to get sumthin out of me or if he does truly have those feelings. and i just got out of a 7 month realtionship that was hard so right now its hard for me to find love again and i dont know i need help.
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WIth men like this, there has to ba rule of thumb if you don't want to risk being played. If in doubt, don't.
If you really do like him and want to know once and for all if he does like you, ask your friends from his school if he acts the same way to other girls and if he has a habit of cheating. They should be able to give you the facts so at least you can make an informed decision.
However, it souds as though they may already be trying to steer you clear of him and if they really think he flirts with other girls at his school, you can probably guarantee it wouldn't stop if you went out with him.
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If I were you, I'd prefer finding a new boyfriend that goes to your school and not another school where he can flirt with other girls.
I know that you don't know for sure if he really is flirting with other girls, but that really makes my point stand out. How do you know what he's doing at his school with other girls? You don't want to keep hearing from your friends more stories that he's flirting while you are with him. It will just make you upset or even crazy for that matter because he isn't going to admit to anything that you might not accept.
Getting out of a long relationship is a tough thing to do. But don't be in such a rush to find a new boyfriend just because you feel lonely. Give yourself some room to think before you try another relationship.
-TheTeenGirl
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You just got out of a relationship, you don't have to find love right away. You probably need some time, I don't know many people who wouldn't.
He's just a 'really good guy friend' and not exactly your boyfriend, so its a possibility he very well could be telling other girls the same thing.
You should talk to him, don't put it off. The longer you wait, the more you'll think about it and the worse situation you'll make out of it for yourself.
If he says he isn't, then respect what he says and see if things improve.
If not, then it's probably not going to get any better and you should find someone better for your standards.
Don't think about the negative things, or the things that you hear from other people. They might not ALWAYS be true.
Good luck!
♥ Evy
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