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Your right, But if he comes back begging and I say NO! If I can what will I do about. wonder what could have been. Because I'm bad for that. I'm just so damn confused. and I afraid of messing up. how do I say no when i want him so bad. I know I'm driving you crazy and I'm sorry.
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Hi, sorry I didn't answer sooner; I was away for the weekend.Don't worry, you're not driving me crazy. I really sympathise with you because I've been where you are now, on more than one occasion and with more than one man. While I still feel that my gut reaction is correct, and you should avoid him, I realise that only you can really know and understand the situation. Only you know what works or doesn't work for you. I'm not telling you not to listen to advice(friends are especially good because they are quick to notice changes in both your mood and your behaviour), but you should also listen to yourself.
Try making a list of the pros and cons of the relationship. So far, I have only heard about the downside, which I have to admit does seem to me more powerful than the any positive side your connection with this man might have. Look at the list, ask yourself whether you gain anything but heartache. Remember that he has not come begging yet-you're not even at that stage of the game. Which isn't to say that he never will: but if you have already thought the situation out, you'll be in a stronger postion, whatever you decide. I wish you all the best, and please contact me again any time you need.
Take care,
Lucretia.
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