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follow up: boyfriend rooming w/ his ex.
i appriciated ur advice last time, but there's more. i've been on her myspace page, and she's posted 2 blogs that talk about her breaking up w/him as being more of a 'taking a break' kind of thing and that they intend to settle down with each other sometime in the future. when i asked him this, a while ago, he didnt really directly answer. it really bothers me and makes me so jealous. i dont necessarily believe we'll be together forever. but i don't like the thought that this is, and always has been, a temporary thing until he's ready to go back to her. am i stupid? i really like him, but i wish so much to be rid of her.....
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No you aren't stupid at all because I think that really a lot of girls in your situation would react the same. I'm pretty sure I would!
But what does HE feel about this? She may have said it's just a temporary situation and might have been talking about a future together for both of them but unless he has said something similar, it could all be totally unrequited on her part. The idealistic hopes of a rejected love. Unfortunately, you can't do anything about her specifically.
If he didn't directly answer your questions before, he needs to now. Try not to be too condemning. Remember that what this other girl has said might have nothing to do with his true feelings at all. Just ask him once and for all how he feels about her because if he still has feelings that he thinks will get stronger or that won't go away, (and this is the part that hurts), it might be better if he acts on them, rather than wasting your time as a 'stand in'.
I promise you that whatever happens, whatever he does, you WILL find someone else that will treat you the way you deserve and you will feel a lot more for him than you do this guy.
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