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Question Posted Friday May 5 2006, 2:31 am

I dont understand I see your point on everything.
I thought Iwas going to be ok until.... I seen him today. I just lost it. I dont know why I did. But I did. He didnt even speak but when he looked at me with those empty eyes I just lost it. I couldnt stop from crying. so what's up with that.


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lucretia answered Friday May 5 2006, 2:10 pm:
I assume from this personal question that you are the author of the "am I heartbroken" qusetion that I answered. If I'm wrong, I'm sorry, but you should really reference the question and not just expect people to know who you are and what you're talking about.
Having said that, my advice to you is still to hang in there- and I don't mean in your friendship with this guy, I mean in your resolve to keep apart from him. Puppydog eyes are a clever part of the bag of tricks that some people(women as well as men) use to snare and manipulate others. Don't fall for it. His manipulation may not even be wholly conscious, but it's still manipulation, and it will still be damaging to you if you allow it to affect how you behave around him. I'm so sorry you're hurt, and it's too bad that you still have to see him, but if you truly can't avoid him(which is perfectly possible, I'm not saying you go out of your way to run into him) then try to keep contact to a minimum. Don't look him in the eyes, at least keep eye contact to a minimum. Keep any meetings short and sweet. Just play it cool and you'll be allreight. If you need further help, you know where I am.
Take care, good luck,
Lucretia.

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