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can you always tell?
But can I be in love and just not know it?
Someone should know if they where in love,right?
But if I'm not in love with him, why did I cry
so hard that I could not breath today? When my friend and I seen him. He just looked at me and didnt say or do anything just look at me with no emotion. Not ever a smile. I think I'm gonna lose my mind.
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You could definitely be in love and not know it. The answer is in how you define love. What I mean is, if you always think of love as romance and they way it is in the movies, maybe the actual love you have doesn't register on your love-meter. If you're feeling the way you do I would try being with him again and see how it goes.
You could be in love and just not be ready for it.
Before I started dating my boyfriend, we were friends for two whole years. I knew he liked me, and I think I loved him back... For some reason I couldn't bring myself to go out with him, he was great and everything you would want in a guy. I think that I was not ready for the kind of love I would have with him. It was almost two heavy, too much. I was 18 at the time I started dating him, it was really weird but I felt like it I was with him that was it for me. The feelings I had were so big that it that it took me two years to recognize I had feeling for him. I had nothing to compare my feelings to, because I had never felt that way before. For 2 years, I would ask my friends what is wrong? Do you think I love him? and all the questions you're asking. After a while they would just roll their eyes, and say just do something! Finally I couldn't take it anymore and I decided to jump in, even though I knew I would jump in so deep I might never be with anyone else or even want to be with any one else again. Fast forward 5 years and I am still with my boyfriend, and I think it's the best decision I have ever made.
But I realized that nobody can tell you how you feel, you have to decide, but I also realized it is possible not to know. Also he won't know how you feel until you tell him, so when you figure it out let him know. You probably love him...
To me love (in the romantic sense) is when you have so much fun with the person or enjoy the person so much it's almost as if time stands still. As if you're in your own small world. At least that in the beginning. I hope you figure it out, let me know.
Jessica
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