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How do i get them to like me?
k so i like a couple guys, but none of them are interested like at all. they watch me in class but whenever i try to talk to them or wave or anything they act like im not there. ive never been on a date and never had a bf. but people tell me i am really pretty and stuff but then why dont any gys like me?
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Dear Reader,
I know how you feel with the whole, people telling you you are pretty but not being asked out by anyone. It's frusterating and confusing. But the thing is how can you be sure that they don't like you? See guys can be funny like that, and well so are we I guess. Just because a guy hasn't gotten the courage to ask you on a date doesn't mean he doesn't like you. Look at it this way, you haven't asked him out yet you know you like him. The point is don't be to quick to worry, he may just be scared or intimidated...
Plus, he's watching you in class. I HIGHLY doubt that he'd be doing that if he didn't AT THE VERY LEAST find you attractive. A lot of times when a guy really likes someone they have a hard time finding words when they're around them. I'm sure you know what I mean because girls do that to. Where "the really hott guy in my math class" talked to you and you were SO embarassed because all you could do was stare and studder when he asked your name. See? Don't worry about it.
As for the why aren't guys asking you out. Haven't you ever wondered how that 'no-so-good-looking' girl you know has a boyfriend and you don't? It's because dating isn't usually about looks, sure they're a perk, but a pretty face isn't usually enough to keep a stable relationship. I'm not saying you don't have any other great qualities, you just probably aren't letting them show. Maybe try being more outgoing, say hi to them(and other's) everytime you see them in the hall, and try talking to them again. And if that still doesn't work maybe try asking him on a date. I know that it's scary to think about, and WAY easier said then done but I promise he will be blow away by you forwardness and probably appreciate you taking the pressure off of him. If that doesn't work or you need more help with ways to ask him out or something you know where to find me.
Let me know how it works out, hope I helped :)
~Kambrey
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