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When guys like me I ignore them
I am a really big flirt. Most people would say I have a pretty good personality (not trying to sound stuck up) So normally if I want a guy I can get him to like me. The thing is once he likes me, I want to move on. Its so wierd because it comes natural. So I want to know how can I stop??? Because for my prom date I'm going with one of the hottest guys in the school. But now that I'm going with him I want to move on. And this could be a big problem because I want us to have fun on our prom night.
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I doubt very much that it is fear that is stopping you. I suspect it is actually that you love the thrill of chasing and getting the attentions of a new guy. There's nothing wrong with this. It just means that you get bored very easily. You love the flirting and the feeling that you have managed to win the interests of a new guy. However, when it comes to actually being in a relationship with them, you want that feeling of chasing someone and being chased again.
You can still have fun at the Prom. You shouldn't rule out this guy completely just because you want to move on. He might be a really fun date and you would have thrown it away. Instead of worrying about being bored with him and wanting to move on, just try to have fun with him. Be flirtatious, laugh, joke and dance and you will have a good time. The Prom isn't only about who you go with so don't base the whole evening on that. You obviously liked this guy for a reason so don't give up on him yet.
Finally, don't worry about the way you get bored so quickly. It's normal for a LOT of women and I have to admit I was exactly the same with all of my boyfriends, right up until my current one who I have been with for nearly 3 years. You WILL find someone who holds your interest but for now, try not to go out with them until you know them a little better and most of all, just have fun.
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sounds like you want what you can't have. or, something else. that's exactly how i am and the way i feel. i prefer that whole ... watching from a far thing. & after the boy likes me, everything is ruined. Just give it a little while with this 'hot guy' and if you don't like him, you can break up with him. & i hate to sound like a cheesy love story -- but. once you find a good guy who you really really like, you won't feel that way.
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a lot of people have that problem. i think you should let him know, not that you want to move on (even if you do) but that you want to keep things interesting. play hard to get, that kind've stuff. i guess there isn't really much to do in this situation. this might sound weird, but it could be a HS thing. you might juss not want to settle down yet. for you, the best situation would be probably not to talk to him as much before prom. juss tell him ur super busy & you want to talk to him, but you'll definately see him before prom & stuff.
-hope that helped!♥
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