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so i really liked or maybe liked this guy, and my best friend now likes him too. she knows im like in love with him, but shes putting in her profile, mikey i love you, in pig latin thinking i wont be able to understand it.. mike said he would never go out with her and i heard she was telling him not to go out with me and to go out with her.. and i know he doesnt want a gf right now. what am i supposed to do if they do go out?
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Judging by what he has said about her, I doubt that he will go out with her. Guys tend to be decisive about the girls they do and don't like. Not to mention, I suspect (and hope) he has been sincerely put off by having this girl he doesn't even like telling him not to go out with another girl!!
Certainly, if anything else, he will probably be thinking that it is absoloutely none of her business who he goes out with and I don't think that anything she says will affect what he might say if you asked him out.
However, at the end of the day, you just won't know what he feels about you unless you ask, or even ask him out. I don't think this girl is a threat at all so you don't need to rush with it but if you do really like him, don't miss your window of opportunity. Trust me on this, if you miss it, you will spend a LONG time regretting it.
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Well, to start that was really bitchy of your friend to do that. You should confront her and tell her that was rude and mean. They most likely wont go out thought, because guys don't usually like clingyness and stuff. Just be a good friend with him, and keep everything normal and usual and if he wants a girlfriend, im sure he will choose you, since you have been a bitch and you have been there for him and and a good friend.
Good Luck =]
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well if he said he'll never go out with her then he might be telling the truth but if i were you then i would tell your friend that that was really mean to do that and say your really mad at her she new that you liked the guy first and it doesn't seem right ifa firned likes the same guy you do
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Act detatched. If he says he doesn't want a girlfriend, then your friend putting the moves on him all of the time will start to annoy him and push him away. That way, when he does decide he wants a girlfriend, he will be less likely to choose her because she was making such a fool of herself. Just try to be a good friend to him without getting in his way too much and see what happens.
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Mikey doesnt want a gf right?
Mikey said he would never go out with her,right?
There is an advantage and disadvangtage. So, all i can say is to maybe tell him that you like him and say something like ,"But, i know that you dont want a girlfriend so if you dont thats fine." Thats really all you can do scince you really cant force someone to like you.
And your friend doesnt sound too nice ethier. If she was a true friend she wouldnt be trying to tell him that he shouldnt go out with you. Thats mean. You should talk to her and tell her that she needs to get a life if she is going to put down her friends for a guy.
Sorry if it isnt much help,
Bailea
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You said that you heard Mike say he would never go out with her so you should just hope on that. And if he doesn't want a girlfriend right now, then you probably don't have much to worry about. Just keep your friendship strong if you have one, if not you should build one.
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