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The boyfriend story.
I want to tell my story. I was reading your column and I read about the girl who had that abusive boyfriend-best friend relationship thing or w/e. I really felt sorry for her but I wanted to tell you my story too, because I am now 24 years old and this happened about 4 years ago and I relive the past everyday. 4 dreadful years ago, my boyfriend came over, I always thought of him as more of a best friend then a boyfriend. My feelings toward him started changeing because we grew apart, we, excuse me, had sex like every other day before. So, it was Tuesday, and we were over my house as usual on Tuesday, and we were watching a movie and he started slowly by rubbing gentely my legs. He then as usual got closer and closer and it was eventually me on the couch leaning while he was fingering me. So, I made him stop. He got up and he MADE me sit on his penis which hurt me because I lost my virginty to him, and he was treating me like a slave after I gave him something so special to me. I told him to stop, and asked him to sit down. I took his hand, and told him that I think we would be better of as friends. He completely took it the wrong way. He slaped me, and then I was like confused of wth was going on. He ducked taped my mouth. He pulled his switch blade out and held it tightly across my neck. He TOLD me he was going to rape me and I would have to be quiet and follow his directions. I did as I was told becuase I was scared to death. He brought a CHAINSAW into the living room. He told me that he was going to have vaginal & oral & anal (anal-i always didn't want to do.) sex with me, and that he wants me to scream his name as loud as possible and that he was going to film us and put it on a website. After 8 hours of doing the most nastiest things you could think of, and being dragged in and out of the house, and having a chainsaw right there,he ducked taped me and put me into carpet which was then rolled. He made me drink from the toilet. He told me he was going to starve me so he could get more viewers on the web because supposebly the only sexy girls are anorexi. Ew. & then after 1 day, his friend came in, and saw what he did to me because my "boyfriend" whom I trusted that much and loved and cared and was wiling to be friends with him tried to murder me. He's friend took me to the hospital. The police arrested my "boyfriend aka murderer." Since then I didn't trust guys, but after 4 years I'm finally going out-with his friend that saved my life. I now have a fobia of chainsaw's. Girls - if you love your boyfriends and want to break up with them, do it over AIM, it's the safest way even though it does seem a little bit werid and bitchy because it's over the net. Whatever you do be safe, because you only get to live once, and remember to take advantage of life and run it the way you want to, not the way somebody eles wants to, and most importantly be true to yourself. I love you. XxXxX
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Thank you so much for sharing your story with me. It defenetly made me think differently and not to trust every guy I meet. I'm sorry that you had to go through that and you didn't deserve it, but as we all know, life isn't predictable. Again, thanks so much for sharing that with me and other girls. I think it made us realize what happened to you, could also happen to us or anyone. Just keep being brave. =)
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