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I don't know what to do.
My girlfriend just broke up with me and we both loved each other, she said i was being too jealous, but i was really just in a bad mood. now i dont know what to do and i was wondering if you had any advice for me?
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Have you ever acted this way before? Is she basing her judgement on the one incident?
If you have been jealous in the past, regardless of your mood at the time, you could find you have some insecurity issues that you need to resolve. It's easy enough to get help for this, your doctor would be able to recommend a good therapist in this field. You would then be able to tell her you are sorry, and you are looking for help. Ask her if she would give you another chance and see how it goes? You could also tell her you would appreciate her support at this time as she means so much to you.
If, however, this really was a once off, it may just be that, sadly, she wanted out of the relationship and was looking for an excuse. If this is the reason, I'm afraid that there are some people that cannot find the courage to end a relationship truthfully, they need an excuse, which in this case would be your jealousy. Only you will have the answers to these questions. I can only suggest that whatever the answer is, there is someone for everyone and maybe she isn't the right girl for you. There is going to be one far better suited to you, you just haven't found her yet.
All the relationships we go through teach us things, which we then can carry onto the next one. Hopefully, in the main, they will be positive lessons which will enrich the permanent relationship waiting for us.
I hope I have helped and good luck.
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