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GUYS ((obviously))
Okay well this is the 2nd i came to you for help i was the very first person that asked you something
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i am now going out with that guy ((not my bestfriend))
and well i havent like him for a while but then just like when he asked me out i thought i liked him but like now i dont really wanna go out with him becuase like in school we dont talk and we never see eachother and he like hasnt like done anything yet and at the dance yesterday he danced with me once and danced with other girls the rest of the time so i really wanna break up with him so my first question is tell me how??
and this is the second one
well my bestfriend is dating this guy that we like both liked but then when i found out he was asking her out i "stopped liking him" but i never reallly did so now we talk like all the time and its just like amazing how well we like comunicate and i am so comferable around him its kinda like in the notebook with 'noah' i feel like one person but with the guy i am going out with now i feel like a different person
so at the dance last night i was just fooling around with him and like we accidently started torking i know your question is how is that an accident? well it was no joke. and it was like for 2 seconds once i realized my bff is still with him and i am with someone else i was just like whoa so like my best friend ovbiously got mad at me so then we like got past it ((the same night)) and like all night she wouldnt stopp talking about him and everytime i would say like a complement about him she would like spaz on me so like i wanna tell her that i like him but i dont know how. but should i tell her? should i tell him? what should i do??
Sorry its really lonngg
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#1----- first off - you shouldnt be leading on your boyfriend now. just be honest with him. and tell him you dont have those little warm fuzzies for him anymore - like you used to. also try mentioning that you guys dont see eachother enough and its hard to keep a realtionship without talking alot. tell him you still wanna be friends though, but dont use the corny line "were better off friends" because thats pretty much like the worst thing possible that you can say. #2----- okay for the second one - if she is your best friend then you should be completely honest with her. i know its kinda scary and she might be mad at you for a day or two - but if you guys are really truely best friends, she wont be able to stay mad at you esp. over a boy. personally, i would try not seeing if her boyfriend likes you - because if he does and they break up, she might try to blame the whole thing on you. and you deffinitally dont want that. but you can tell him - if you want. just say something like "from all the time we have been spending togetehr lately, ive realised we have a lot in common and i guess ive realised i have feelings for you as more than a friend. i know your with so-and-so and i dont want to interfere but i just wanted to be honest" or something like that. make sure you include that you dont wanna interfere with his girlfriend now but that you also like him. as for the dancing part - anyone can dance with anyone. so really its not a big deal. would your best frined be happy if she foudn out? eh, prolly not. but who cares? you were just having a good time and enjoying yourself. and so was he.
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