|
girlfreinds
how do I stay out the the freind zone?
what say to a girl you just met on the phone?
do you have any tips I can use to act smooth?
any romance tips thats guaranteed to get me to stay with her?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
first of all a girl doesn't need a panicer ok she probably is one her self ok thats all i can help you with...:}
]
First of all, there are no guarantees. You have to realize that before we continue. As for smoothness, try being yourself. Now if yourself is a perv or a jerk, which you don't seem like, then maybe you should work on that first. Be natural, try to work in some natural jokes, nothing too obvious, corny, or overused, girls pick up on that fast. My girlfriend and I have been together for five months now, and I find that the jokes or things she laughs at most aren't forced, they just kinda come naturally. Talk about things that might interest her. In other words, don't bore her with video games if she isn't a gamer, no sports if she isn't a sports fan. Talk about what she likes, her interests, favorite movies, etc. Don't focus on yourself unless she asks, don't want to come off as self-absorbed. As for just meeting a girl on the phone, try complimenting her voice or her laugh when you hear it. Something as simple as "you have a very beautiful voice" or "such a beautiful voice, you must be very beautiful" can go along way. If you get to take this girl on a date, there is something very important you should remember: chivalry is not only for the knights of old. Open doors for her, pull out her chair for her at tables, offer your jacket if she is cold(if she becomes your girlfriend, then wrap your arm around her, its one of those little signals that she wants to be closer), oh, and flowers are always good, unless she is allergic. If you can and have time, perhaps ask her friends if she has a favorite type of flower. Bringing her her favorite flowers shows that you care enough to find that sort of thing out, which is a very good thing. If there isn't time, it's hard to go wrong with a dozen long-stem red roses. Short on cash? Live in a flower-rich area? A hand-picked bouquet of bright flowers can say even more than store-bought roses. Need more in the romance department? Want to show that you can be the good guy that that good girl you want is looking for? One word: picnic. Try to find a nice open field or park or beach, a beautiful, sunny, not too hot or cold day, make some sandwiches or other great picnic food, like fried chicken (email me for a good recipe), toss in maybe a frisbee or volleyball, and you have an excellent romantic date that won't hit you in the pocket book, and will show her you are different from other guys around. Good luck, and as always, email me for more advice or recipes if you need them!
Best wishes, Jordan
jordan.j.hunter@okstate.edu
]
first of all, DONT GO TO FAST! take it slow, if you rush things she will feel overwhelmed. You should also treat her very nice, but don't be too controlling. You should definately ask her to do something, maybe go to the movies or someting casual and take it from there hope i helped!
]
More Questions: |