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losing a friend
12 female.....ok so this year (6th grade) i met this girl. I were becomgng best friends with this girl (lets call her tori) well me and tori always were together. we ate lunch together and we were in almost all eachothers classes, we would alway pick eachother to be partners and we would hang out a lot! This year this new girl came to our school (lets call her becky) tori is really nice so she will go up to practiclly anyone and just say hello or hi for fun. while when she said it to becky i guess it created a friendship. Everything was going great until tori picked becky for her partner and i had to be with this person i never talked to. that day i got a feeling that tori was likeing becky more. From then on they would always talk about things they did and stuff and laugh but i was never there when they hung out so i never got any of there jokes. Track just started and they were always running next to eachother and im not the fastest runner but im pretty good but they would always go ahead and i was always left behind. I was getting really annoyed and sad cuase i was like losing my best friend.i guess i was getting jelous:( So that night i called tori and talked to her for a little bit and then brought up why she wasn't including me in anything anymore. She was getting really mad and defensive. She said that she was trying to include me but becky didn't like me and that becky always pulled her away. I don't know what to do. Im not that "popular" of a girl so i don't know a lot of people cuase on weekends i would always hang out with tori! I need help on how to get my best friend back or what i should do!!!
thanks a bunch!!!!!!!
:( sry for the long letter!!
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okay well just put yourself out there and invite both tori* and becky* over and start to get to know becky better and if she has a problem with it just talk to her and be like tori is my best friend and im not gonna lose her so you either accept me or or.. something i dont no yet but im sure u can come up with that. but if tori* is your best friend she wouldnt be letting becky* take her away shed actually go back and get you. so hunni if things still arent working out maybe tori* isnt the right friend for you so maybe find another really nice group of friends to hang out.. dont worry this same thing happened to me and it all turned out okay.i hope i helped.. give me an update on how its going and if you need anymore help!!
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