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A friend thats not so much a friend
ok, there is this girl that is in the group that i hang out with. i've known her for 3 years now and i'm about to loose it with her. just everything she does just sets me off. she always makes rude remarks under her breath about me and talks behind my back all the time. she gives me rude looks and just flat out ignores me sometimes. what really made me mad, all my good friends play soccer and i play basketball, so they all started a team and i wanted to be on it. so this "friend" and her mom were organizing the whole thing, and a month in advance i asked her to join and she said she'd give me the papers. well now, a month later, i asked her again and she said "oh, its to late now." alright, well then a friend tells me that she said she didn't want me on the team because she said i would be talk to my best friend too much and she wanted to talk to her. i cannot tell you how frusterated i am with her. any advice? oh, and by the way, i talked to her about it awhile ago, and she just exploded at me and said i was the rudest person she ever met and how i wasn't a friend at all. ugh!! what am i to do?
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first off - lemme start by saying i can totally relate. theres this girl in a group of my friends i really cant stand. and all of them play soccer and i play basketball as well. anyway - personally, id just ignore her. shes completely jealous of you and what you and your best friend[s] have together. what she wants to do it actually see that shes bugging you and that its getting to you. so you gotta make sure you dont show that. i know you get super frustrated and i dont blame you. but forreal - she wants to be like you. maybe even take your place. she hopes by talking bad about you that other people will start to agree with what she says and start to not like you. shes prolly not very well liked [ because she talks about people and shes rude] and you prolly are. the whole soccer team thing - id just go to all the games and cheer the team on. then plan sleepovers or get togethers with everyone on the team except her for after. [ haha ] she will be like really wanting to go but try your hardest for her not too. but if you do that - you have to be ready for even more rude comments about you coming up because shes so pissed. just be ready and have a good excuse. (ex. we didnt have room in my car, my mom said no more people). maybe also you should talk to your best friend and make sure that no matter how much time she spends with her - to watch her back. because if this girl is rude to you. then who knows whos next on her list. like i said - dont show her it gets to you. im sorry about this.. good luck!
hope this helps!! :] ♥
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