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False Accusations
Triple G- again for today. Before I go to my actual question let me just say this- HOW DID YOU ANSWER MY QUESTIONS SO QUICK?!!!I mean, I was gonna ask you another question, then all of a sudden, the computer went from the get advice page to you column. You already answered my question in like an hour. You are unbelievable. I'll give you my compliments. I can fullheartedly say I rate 5!!!
Yes so, to my question. One day, when I was walking to pick up my sister, MLE was going to pick up her brother. They go to different schools, but MLE and I take the same route to get to the schools. I was calling my mom on my phone. MLE likes to joke around at times, and then she was all like ooh, is that your boyfriend? She knows I don't have one, but she was joking. My mom heard, and ever since then, she has been suspecting me of it. MLE told mom on the phone I did'nt that she was joking, that I don't have one. Mom wouldn't listen. Anytime I tell mom that I don't she's like ' I don't need lies from you.' What should I do?
p.S., if you can answer this in the next hour, I'll write to you forevr. You can get me through h.s. and maybe college, and frver, of course, maybe you'll die bfre that.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Families?
It sounds as though your parents aren't pleased that their 'little girl' is growing up. If you're telling your mom the truth, there's nothing more you can do.
You can try to explain to her that you are hurt she won't believe you, but if she doesn't listen, you're stuck. While you can't control her actions, you CAN control your reactions. Staying calm will help, as will not bringing up the subject unless she asks.
You also can volunteer to take on additional responsibility like taking your sister swimming - this does two good things for you.
First, it helps your parents learn to trust you more. Second, it gives you some much needed independence.
You know what you are or are not doing, and it can be unnerving for your parents to accept that you are getting older and becoming responsible for your own actions. It might take them time to learn to accept the situation, but as long as you stay calm and level-headed, you have done nothing wrong.
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