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Friends


Question Posted Monday April 24 2006, 4:49 pm

Okay. So my two best friends, well, aren't anymore. Let's just call them Jess & Sara. So me & Sara had been best friends since kdg. and me & Jess had been friends since 6th grade or something so it was a few years. This year, the three of us started hanging out a lot and pretty soon Jess was always picking Sara over me, like I was invisible whenever I was around the two of them. So I wrote Jess a note saying how I felt and how yeah, so then Jess wrote back this really mean nasty note saying how she didn't wanna be my friend anymore, blah blah blah. So then Sara took Jess's side even though I wasn't made at Sara for anything, and we didn't talk for a few weeks. Then Sara instant messaged me saying she wants to be my friend and stuff & I said that No I dont think it's going to work, like you just don't throw away that many years of friendship. Then a week or two later, she instant messaged me again saying how she was 'sick of being in the middle between friends and not friends' when I had clearly told her that I didn't want to be. I told her that it was up to her because it was her decision whether she could make things work with both her & Jess and both me & her. She said 'oh yeah i know i can make it work!!' and I said 'fine whatever then we'll try'. So now she's been instant messaging me all the time and I dont really want a relationship with her. She's so fake and I can't stand it. Also, shes had this pothead boyfriend for a few months and hes just crazy. He's liked me for a really long time and any chance he gets he'll either kiss me on the cheek or say how he wants to do me or just I dont know random things like that but there would be no point in telling her because she'd refuse to believe it because shes ""In Love"" and I've tried before, but he just denies it and says im crazy,.....

Everything is just incredibly dumb and me & Jess haven't talked since the fight a month or two ago and it's like everyday she'll see me in the hall and give me this dirty looks and it's really dumb how immature she's being

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molly008 answered Thursday May 11 2006, 9:41 pm:
okay, you didnt ask a question so i need you to send me another message with a question in it if you want adice. but ill say something since i want to help somehow, maybe try giving sara a chance becasue she obviously wants you back and you have to give her credit for trying so yeah, i dont know what else to say because that wasnt a question reallly so yeah just ask a question next time, thanks, molly

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